Rukhsati is a bittersweet occasion, marking the beginning of a new journey while bidding farewell to your maternal home. Here’s a checklist of items that a Kashmiri bride takes with her on the day of her rukhsati. These items are usually carried by your loved ones as you leave your maternal home.
Disclaimer: This list is provided for informational purposes, drawing from traditional practices. No endorsements are implied, and selection is optional.
- Dry Fruit Bowl (Copper, wood, paper machine, etc)
- Chocolate tray
- Quran Sharief
- Izband soz
- Small quran sharief to wear
- Small trammi with sweets
- Bridal Shawl: It will be draped over you as you leave, marking this special moment as you transition into married life.
Based on your family customs, a copper samavar is also sent by the bride’s family as part of kahw (kehwa) khabar on the walima morning.
Source: Ribbons by Samar Shawl
Note: Keep additional dry fruit packets to refill the bowl.
Ensure you have these essentials packed and ready for your Rukhsati. Each item holds significant meaning, helping you celebrate your culture while embracing the exciting journey ahead. Before you go, check out the Kashmiri bride and groom wedding lists.
